Location
Farmingdale, New York
If you’ve ever looked at a photo of yourself and felt disconnected from the woman staring back, you’re not alone.
The majority of women who enter my studio say something along these lines:
“I always feel awkward in photos.”
“I’m not photogenic.”
“What should I do with my face?”
Or just “I don’t like the way I look in photos.”
I hear this almost every day. And I want you to know: there is nothing wrong with you.
It has nothing to do with your age, appearance, or physique. It’s about comfort. About feeling safe enough to let your real self be seen. Because the truth is, you don’t need to change anything to photograph beautifully – you just need the right experience.
Let’s talk about how we get you there.
Step One: Releasing the Pressure
You don’t have to perform. You don’t have to show up “knowing how to pose” or “being good at photos.” That’s my job. Your only job is to be open to the process.
From the moment you book your session, we walk through everything together – wardrobe, styling, what to expect, how to prepare. Nothing is left to chance. You’ll never be guessing what’s next or worrying about how to stand.
The minute you enter the studio, it becomes a space for you to simply be. No judgment. No rush. At every stage, just quiet direction and support.
Step Two: Letting Go of the Old Story
So many of us carry stories about not being “photo-worthy.” Maybe it started with an unflattering school portrait. Or a group photo where you didn’t like how you looked. Perhaps it’s simply years of being the one in front of the camera.
But you don’t have to keep that story.
I’ve worked with women of all ages, shapes, and life stages, many of whom hadn’t had their photo taken in decades. They came in nervous. Unsure. Guarded. And by the end of the session? Laughing. Relaxed. Radiant. Not because they suddenly became someone new, but because they remembered who they already were.
No matter what, you’re never too old or too late. You are enough, exactly as you are. And it’s my job to reflect that back to you through light, connection, and honest direction.
Step Three: Little Shifts That Make a Big Difference
Here are a few tangible ways to feel more confident before your session:
- Choose clothing that feels like you. Not what you think you should wear. Comfort and confidence go hand in hand.
- Get intentional rest the night before. Not for the sake of perfection but so your energy feels full and grounded.
- Speak kindly to yourself. The voice you use with yourself will echo into the experience.
- Trust the process. You’re not doing this alone. Every pose, every expression, every moment – I’m guiding you through it.
We’ll take breaks. We’ll laugh. I’ll adjust your posture gently and encourage you when something’s working. You don’t need to know how to “look good”. That’s my lens to worry about.
The Transformation Is Real and It’s Not Just Visual
Many clients tell me that their session was the first time they truly saw themselves. That for once, they felt beautiful in a way that wasn’t tied to comparison or criticism.
They tell me how the experience shifted something inside. How they walked away not just with portraits they loved, but with a deeper sense of ownership over their story, their body, their presence.
That’s what this is really about.
It’s Okay to Be Nervous – Come As You Are
If you’ve never loved a photo of yourself, you’re in good company. And you’re right where you should be.
You don’t need to wait until you lose ten pounds. You don’t need to practice your smile in the mirror. You just need to show up – open, curious, and willing to see yourself in a new light.
Together, we’ll turn nervous energy into something radiant. Something grounded. Something real.
Inquire Now. Let’s create portraits that make you feel seen, and finally, proud to be in the frame.
